I’m discovering that when things aren’t going smoothly it’s because others tend to treat me based on what they are bringing to the table and not based on me. I’m with Nancy, life is easier once we accept that realization. It really isn’t personal!
Thanks Kate for sharing. Much appreciated. 🙂
Its a life changer when we stop taking things personally. The next step … I’m working on … is to find compassion for others who bring us down.
Focus on the good in others… yes, we tend to pay attention to negative details… whereas we should focus “on the good in others” as you say… and thus, in the good in us! Great post as ever ♥
Frederic, so true! Our default seems to be rooted in the negative … That ego finds its way into everything to defend itself. Being moody is just one of its sad faces. When we can see the good in others and ourselves we connect to our higher Self.
Thank you your insight … As always 🙂
Val x
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent” – Eleanor Roosevelt
Great reminder Val, on those days when we feel like everyone is against us!
Karen
Hi Val, I agree with the sentiments but never saw ‘moods’ as necessarily implying ‘downs.’ I see them as covering the whole spectrum from surviving to flying!
Yup. When you no longer feel as if you are walking around with a bulls-eye on your forehead, life is infinitely easier. 😎
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Thanks Nancy! Nothing personal 🙂
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I’m discovering that when things aren’t going smoothly it’s because others tend to treat me based on what they are bringing to the table and not based on me. I’m with Nancy, life is easier once we accept that realization. It really isn’t personal!
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Thanks Kate for sharing. Much appreciated. 🙂
Its a life changer when we stop taking things personally. The next step … I’m working on … is to find compassion for others who bring us down.
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That’s a good one to work on! Sending you good and uplifting energy today!
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Simple as that, indeed, Val! Thanks for the reminder. ❤
Diana xo
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Thanks Diana … And we both know that simple doesn’t mean easy …. 😉
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Focus on the good in others… yes, we tend to pay attention to negative details… whereas we should focus “on the good in others” as you say… and thus, in the good in us! Great post as ever ♥
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Frederic, so true! Our default seems to be rooted in the negative … That ego finds its way into everything to defend itself. Being moody is just one of its sad faces. When we can see the good in others and ourselves we connect to our higher Self.
Thank you your insight … As always 🙂
Val x
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“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent” – Eleanor Roosevelt
Great reminder Val, on those days when we feel like everyone is against us!
Karen
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Those days with all defenses up ….. Are great great for learning and breaking free. You are Eleanor are wise 🙂
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Val, I love having you and your gentle, understanding wisdom in my world. xo
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Thank you Julie! I appreciate you being around and sharing your inspiring words and deeds 🙂
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Good advice Val!
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Thank you Barb. x
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Hi Val, I agree with the sentiments but never saw ‘moods’ as necessarily implying ‘downs.’ I see them as covering the whole spectrum from surviving to flying!
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Thank you Jean for sharing the generic spectrum 🙂 I was definitely thinking of “bad” moods when the impact can be pretty toxic.
Val x
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