befriend your self
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Make friends with your Self

It is waiting for your love

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About Val Boyko

Val Boyko is originally from Scotland and came to the United States over 25 years ago. At "Find Your Middle Ground" Val brings together her experience as a life coach, yoga teacher and mentor, to inspire awakening to the light and inspiration within us all. This blog is a place of exploration and discovery as we all explore finding harmony and peace, in the highs and lows of life 💛

21 comments on “* Haiku – make friends

  1. Beautiful! As I read your haiku I am sitting on a park bench in Prospect Park, Brooklyn watching people feed the swans, geese and ducks, and a starling darted over and snagged a morsel to savor under a tree. It’s 73 degrees warm today and the swans are in mating ritual. Ah, Spring! 🌿💐🌞

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    • Thanks Sunny! What a lovely afternoon you are having 😊 I have just prepared some azaleas for planting and am enjoying digging in the dirt in the sunshine. Spring has come! 💕


  2. Accepting and loving everything about ourselves is our gift to the world. Have a lovely spring day Val. 🙂

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  3. Lovely — what a wonderful gift of words to live by you share Val. Thank you!

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  4. Yes! So true. Thanks for the reminder, Val!

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  5. Wonderful haiku, Val — what a gift self-love is, the gift of a lifetime.

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  6. Lovely, nice thought 🙂

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  7. The best of friends I have is with myself.. 🙂

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  8. Val, what a coincidence that I should hit on this post today when I am feeling so cut off from you all!

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  9. I picture so much in your words, Val. Deep meanings but mainly to love others, we must love ourselves. You say things which I may say back to you with caring.

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  10. This is wonderful! I am writing this down in my journal to be reminded always. Thank you so much, Val! ❤

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