This is a re-blog from 2015, when I began to notice the tension when trying to get caught up with posts on Word Press. We don’t need to be actively interacting, to know that we are a part of this community. Gratitude and love to you ❤️
Noticing Monday morning and its regular gift of a slight contraction in my body and mind.
My ego alert with thoughts about getting a head start and how much to get through.
No, not work…
The blogs I follow expand with content on Monday mornings.
An avalanche of goodness awaits.
Leading to some feelings of overwhelm and not enough time.
So I take time to notice and pause…
Slowing down and breathing in order to be present for each one.
Letting go of thoughts to hurry through and get it behind me.
This is not a task, its about connection, listening and community.
These feelings are like an echo of how I lived most of my life.
Hurrying up to get things done and get ahead of the present.
Skipping forward towards some goal.
If only I knew then what I know now …
Thank you bloggers for this lesson on mindful presence today
Every year I like to review this list to bring good Karma to the year ahead, and beyond. This year I have added more self compassion and kindness towards others. Let me know what resonates with you this year.
Keep your word.
Be curious. Listen to understand.
Show respect to everyone you encounter.
Be respectful of those you haven’t met.
Be a good friend.
Look for the best in everyone.
Be kind to others.
Be kind to yourself.
When you make a mistake say, “I’m sorry.
Pour out your love when someone asks for it.
Put your children’s needs before your own.
When someone is speaking to you, be fully present and listen.
Express yourself joyfully.
Don’t be cruel with your words.
Be grateful for everything you have. It is more than enough.
Share your wisdom with those who ask for it.
Give away what you don’t need.
Help keep the Earth beautiful and safe for generations to come.
Look behind you, stop and hold the door open for others.
Savor every moment. The good, bad and the ugly. That’s life!
Don’t forget to bring the dogs in after you have let them out.
Smile more. Laugh lots!
Expect life to be good.
Do the right thing, especially when no one is watching.
Dance with abandon. Always.
Share the love you have been given and pass it on to others.
Thanksgiving didn’t used to be a sad time of year for me, until a couple of years ago. A lot has shifted in these past two years, and I feel more and more disillusioned about living here. Perhaps it’s a sign of growing older, or looking back with nostalgia on my own childhood get togethers.
I am grateful for loving friends and connections, good health, yoga, a past rooted in Scotland…. and America as my adopted home.
I am filled with quiet
joy for no reason save
the fact that I’m alive.
the message I receive
is clear – there’s no time
to lose from loving, no
place but here to offer
kindness, no day but this
to be my true, unfettered
self and pass the flame
from heart to heart. This
is the only moment that
exists – so simple, so
exquisite, and so real.
~ Danna Faulds
Let these words settle deep within and nourish you today.
As we come to the end of the year, its natural to reflect on the year that has gone by, as well as to look forward to the new year ahead. This is a time for “kind sight” once again.Below are two journalling exercises to explore, now that the rush of the Holidays is over. I like to think of this as a Middle Ground pause. A time for being present, reflecting and allowing your inner wisdom to inspire you for whatever comes next.
Take a few moments to let yourself get settled and comfortable. Start by reflecting with “kind sight”on the past year. “Kind sight” means being kind to yourself, instead of being critical or judging. With “kind sight” we are able to see mistakes as lessons, and life’s challenges as times of resiliency and personal growth.
Ask yourself the following questions and write down your answers:
Looking back on 2017…
What was a highlight?
What was a lowlight?
What was a surprise?
What do I feel proud of?
What do I feel grateful for?
What did I learn (or am still learning) from either the highlights or lowlights?
Some people do a month by month reflection, while others evaluate important areas in their lives. (For example – career, family, health, hobbies, learning, contribution, spirituality, travel, environment, self-care, personal growth)
Once you’ve reflected on 2017, write a Future Gratitude Letter:
This is a letter to yourself written a year in advance, describing all the things that you are grateful for during the year. Start with the date December 31 2017 and address it to yourself.
Include who you’ve become and what you now have or are moving towards. Be careful not to include anything that feels like a “have to” goal or something that you “should” achieve.
This is a letter of “kind sight” for the year ahead. The key is in the energy. If your energy feels uplifted when you think about the things you’re grateful for in a year’s time, then you are tapping into your own passion and inner wisdom.
This can be a revealing and inspiring process, letting the creative juices and intention begin it’s journey.