light after death
inner light
~
Authentic being
Reality is grounding
Your soul knows the truth
~

These words came to me in the pre dawn stillness.

We all want to live authentically, but what does that really mean?
It means being in alignment with our essential being: heart, mind and soul. An other way to express it is to be attuned to our Higher Self or Spirit.

So many of us live our lives in our heads and have become disconnected from the wisdom and guidance of the heart and our higher self. We have also disconnected from our bodies, and it shows up as unexpected ailments and chronic illness.

Perhaps the most important realization, is that when we live in our heads, we are looking to the past for reassurance or lessons, and projecting into the unknown future with our active imaginations and fear driven beliefs. When we tune into our bodies and our breath, we learn to notice whatever is occurring in the present moment.

Being aware of the moment we are in and getting to know ourselves beyond our conditioned mind, are key to our personal and spiritual transformation.

From our early years we wanted more pleasure and tried to move away from any discomfort and pain. We needed to feel loved and approved of, and adapted our behavior to please others, so we could be seen in a certain light. Our guide was our relationship with others, along with our growing sense of self or ego.

Authentic being is when we start to see beyond the beliefs and behaviors that our ego mind has created.

The way we want to be seen, or who we think we should be, is the domain of the ego. Its role is to keep us safe … and also keeps us a separate individual in the world. This sense of being separate is at the core of our culture and the foundation for independence, self reliance and competition, as well as entitlement, greed, and selfishness. It is so conditioned we no longer think about it.

Life becomes complex and complicated when we give free rein to our thinking mind, and its preferences. We have to remind ourselves that our thoughts are not the truth, and what others agree on is not the truth either. We must listen to our inner guide and honor our own values.

When we step back and begin to know what really matters to us, things become clearer. We must access our own guiding light, rather than being swayed by others and external pressure.

Attuning to our selves, rather to what others have imposed on us, or simply assumed on our behalf, is the first step towards the freedom to be your true authentic self.

To be true to yourself, and touch your soul, start to follow what intrigues and calls to you. Find what makes you light up from the inside. It doesn’t need to be monumental. It can be the joy in collecting, or making or solving a puzzle, picking or planting flowers, achieving a goal, connecting to like minded people, finding where you belong, helping others, tending to the sick, giving comfort, being an inspiration, offering a practical service, or exploring a natural talent.

Let the light begin to shine through you, and let it show you the way.

Namaste

24 comments on “Haiku – the truth

  1. Jet Eliot's avatar

    Cheers to the reality of light. Warm thanks, Val.

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  2. derrickjknight's avatar

    Very sound experience

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  3. Writing to Freedom's avatar

    Lovely message and reminders. Thank you Val. 🌷

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  4. Sharon Lawrence's avatar
    Sharon Lawrence

    Val – that is beautiful!

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  5. 333rpm's avatar

    Thank you Val!Sent from my iPhone

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  6. Eliza Waters's avatar

    💜 🙏🏼 Thanks, Val

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  7. Michele Anderson's avatar

    I agree. In stillness is where I find “me.”

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  8. Sue Dreamwalker's avatar

    Such an excellently written piece dear Val, as we begin to rediscover ourselves, along with our connections to our Higher Self…. The one with No Ego, no competition… I feel more and more are learning to listen to their hearts and learn to let go of their mind controlling mechanisms and indoctrinated ways of manipulation… It is a long tangle yet to be unravelled, but slowly people are beginning to see they can no longer continue in the same old programs of old. Thank you Val for shinning your love and light along with your wisdom here my friend.. Sending much love and hugs your way and a Happy Mother’s day over there to you also xx ❤ 🌸💖🙏

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    • Val T Boyko's avatar

      Thank you so much dear Sue 💐🙏🏻💝 I am heading to Scotland tomorrow to connect to my roots .. and get my garden in order. There will be time to connect to the land and Soul. So looking forward to the unwinding and nourishment that the land and people bring.

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      • nrhatch's avatar

        Have a grand time in Bonny Scotland!

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        • Val T Boyko's avatar

          Thanks Nancy! It’s going well. Sun is shining, and the house is getting cleared. Need to treat myself to a walk on the beach today 🥰

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      • Sue Dreamwalker's avatar

        Its been 5 years now since I was last in Scotland and we used to travel twice a year to visit… But since we had our little rescued cat, we have not gone far, it would be too much to put him in a boarding home and unfair to ask family to cat sit… But we have done our fair share of travelling the world and at home…
        So say hi to our favourite Highlands 🙂 EnJOY my friend.. ENJOY xx
        ~Much love to you xx ❤

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  9. Ananda's avatar

    Wise & Beautiful

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  10. Dalo Collis's avatar

    In today’s world, I am not sure there is a more important post than this one ~ truth and authenticity is where we will find peace.

    Authentic beingReality is groundingYour soul knows the truth

    As far as the pendulum has swung, I do believe your words above are something people are beginning to understand, and all we need now is action (and, yes, I am an optimist… 😊).

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    • Val T Boyko's avatar

      Thank you so much Randall. We must all look inside, follow our heart and connect to our Inner Guide, rather than be continually swayed by manipulative external messages.
      Thank you for being here 💐🙏🏻💛

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  11. D. Wallace Peach's avatar

    A lovely and much needed reminder, Val, especially when there is so much bad news consuming our country. I appreciate your inspiring message. Hugs.

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  12. lorriebowden's avatar

    It sure makes a difference when we are walking in our purpose…following our passion! Thanks for this, Val. I am in a place of just that. And I am so grateful for all of the life events that guided me to where I am…it was all necessary!

    Hope you are well…love and light!

    Lorrie

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