Whichever way to spell it…. I admit that I was very reluctant to start journaling myself – I thought it was for people with lots of time and a leaning towards poetry … and American teenage girls… not me at all! It turned out that I was being too quick to judge.

You can buy yourself a beautifully bound notebook to capture your personal experiences and insights in writing, set up a WordPress blog with this intention, or simply open a document on your computer to allow you to capture all the things going on in your head or to vent your frustrations.
Journaling is about taking what is in your head and heart and putting it in writing.
No matter how you choose to do it, it can be powerful and beneficial!
The Benefits
- Research shows that writing about stressful life experiences boosts our emotional health and also improves immune function both in healthy people and in those with chronic illness. (It feels good and does you good!)
- It gives you the freedom to express anything and everything that occurs to you, in whatever way you want to do it.
- It can start a new train of thought or give you a new perspective. It opens space for creativity and new ideas.
- It allows you to unburden yourself without complaining to other people.
- It’s private and only between you and you, other people’s reactions don’t need to be considered.
- As well as documenting your actions, plans and progress through life, it can be an indispensable healing tool in times of transition and stress.
- Its a way to bring you to your Middle Ground. A place to connect with your Self. A place for centering and refreshment.
My Own Experience
I decided that I would spend 5 minutes every day writing my thoughts and ideas down in a word document before I opened my e-mails. The first day I spent 5 minutes expressing how uncomfortable and unsure I was about it.
The second day I captured all the new ideas that had come to me during the night that I didn’t want to lose. It felt good to know it was there and I could refer to it later.
The third day was 10 minutes of venting my frustration about a disappointment and then an other 10 minutes on an action plan to move forward with an alternative course of action. Now that felt great. It can be a self coaching tool – and it saves spouses, friends and colleagues from being the recipients of the vent.
I found it works really well for me when I am over thinking, overloaded and stressed, or when something is happening in my life where I have little control over.
My other experience of journaling has been while at my Kripalu Yoga Teacher Training programs. It was introduced as a mindfulness practice. Writing by pen and capturing what came up during a particular exercise or practice. I found writing by pen was a different experience and allowed me to capture my stream of consciousness in the moment.
Both methodologies work for me at different times.
I came to see that my reluctance to start came from judgment and a fear of “digging up stuff that is best left alone”. What I found instead was buried treasure.
If you are like I was – just try it with an open mind and open heart and see what gems are there to be discovered.


It definitely helped me with something I was obsessing over and understand my feelings. Sent from my iPhone
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Thanks Jeanne. 💐 It’s been a powerful practice for me recently too.
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Free therapy! Wonderful!
Thanks so much for sharing Val.
I have read many self-help books that suggest journaling, but have never bothered to try.
Maybe now… (We will see if I do it!)
Blessings, Paul
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Be open and curious… and keep me posted Paul.
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I’m glad you tried journaling and find it useful Val. I do it occasionally, but might want to revisit.
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Thank you Brad 💐. I returned to journaling recently to help with the transition after my mother’s death, as well as some physical issues that impact my yoga teaching, and embracing my “old” ness.
The future seems less certain … but also has hope when we return to the light in our hearts, instead of the worrying of the mind. Journaling helped me see this clearly.
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Kudos for making wise and loving choices Val.
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I’ve been journaling for over 40 years, mostly when I am wrestling with an issue that I need to work out. If someone were to read them, they’d think I was upset all the time, but the key is to look at the dates and realize I was happy and settled most of the time. Somehow, I am not motivated to write when all is well! A reader needs to read between the lines!
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Love this Eliza❣️That’s what I have been doing since I got my Mac computer in 2015. It’s so interesting to look back and read the issues and the dates. The in between good times fall into place, especially after some cathartic writing. 💐
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My blog has been a savior. It allows me to feel, heal, and open in so many ways. It ever asks me ‘how do I feel’ as I step into that medative place and open to me, that truthful place of the heart center. That love that we are becoming in going through our fears and fine tuning that trust with ourselves, the builder of that self love.
And of course so much feedback from Spirit pulls me up short if I do not face that inner truth. And don’t worry, even after all the practice I’ve had…there are days when a wobble is detected. Hey, I’m allowed some days off 🤣
Great post Val, and yes, those writings are those very things that help us see our truth 🤗❤️🙏
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Thank you so much Mark for your honesty and vulnerability … and more than anything, your big open heart ❤️
May we walk this path together and support each other along the way 🕊️
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Good luck with the writing Val, I have no doubt it will speak well 🤗❤️🙏
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That kind of sums up my blog
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Agreed! Thank you, Derrick.
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Sometimes journaling helps us turn the page and start the next chapter in our life story.
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It sure does. Thanks Nancy 💐🙏🏻💝
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Great idea, Val. Putting thoughts down is a great way to clear out our minds and find peace. I should start doing that. I put my thoughts down on paper mostly when coming up with a blog idea, but I can see how helpful journaling everyday would be.
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Thank you Michele 💐
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Wise words dear Val… I have journaled for years, and have a box full of old journals, I keep one at the side of my bed for my dreams when I wake to write down… and one for my ‘venting’ and thoughts 🙂 It is very therapeutic and also revealing as it opens our hearts as we learn to let go of of stuff that can get pent up and stuck within us..
Wishing you a very Happy New Year dear Val…. and Happy Journaling xx ✨💖🙏
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Thank you Sue❣️Happy New Year to you 💐🙏🏻💖🥳
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I had almost the exact same experience, Val. Resistance and judgment and then this huge welling of insights as I privately expressed what was going on with me, what it meant, and what I might or might not do about it. I love hearing about all the different discoveries you’ve made. I stopped a while ago, but you make me want to start up again. Happy New Year.
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Thank you Diana for sharing your experience. Journalling is always here to come back to, especially as we move through the cycles of life.
It’s certainly not a “One and done”, but a practice that meets a need at the time.
Happy New Year 🥳🥂🎉
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Yes, exactly. I’d like to get back to it again someday. As well as recording my dreams.
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That’s also had happened with me..
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It does help trust me.
I dedicated myself to help people who need that self discovery and self help, reach more engaging journals and are really really helpful!
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Thank you Isla 💐
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