self inquiry

“Meditative self-inquiry is the art of asking a spiritually powerful question. And a question that is spiritually powerful always points us back to ourselves. Because the most important thing that leads to spiritual awakening is to discover who and what we are—to wake up from this dream state, this trance state of identification with ego….

One of the simplest pointers I can give here is to remember that this process of inquiry and investigation really takes place from the neck down. An example of this is when you ask yourself, “What am l?” The first thing most people realize is that they don’t know. So most people will go into their minds to try to figure it out. But the first thing that your mind knows is that you don’t know. In spiritual inquiry that’s very useful information. “I don’t know what I am. I don’t know who I am.”

Once you recognize that, you can either think about it or you can actually feel it. What’s it like when you look inside to find out who you are and you don’t find an entity called “you”? What does that open space feel like? Feel it in your body; let it register in the cells of your being. This is real spiritual inquiry. This transforms what might have been just an abstract thought in the mind into something that is very visceral, very kinesthetic, and very spiritually powerful.

Once we recognize ourselves as awareness itself, our identity can begin to rest in its essence. Who we are is no longer found in our body, mind, personality, thoughts, and beliefs. Who we are rests in its source. When we rest in our source, our body and mind and personality and thoughts and feelings come into harmony.”

~ Adyashanti

These words really resonate with me. As a yogi and teacher I understand the connection with the body and breath to lead us to a place of centered connectedness unlike any other state. Its how I find my middle ground every day.

The answer to our seeking doesn’t lie in our heads.

We must tune in to our inner being, and surrender to what is not known.

Let it register in the cells of your being.

Time to get the mat out and go teach 🙏

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Val Boyko is originally from Scotland and came to the United States over 30 years ago. At "Find Your Middle Ground" Val brings together her experience as a life coach, yoga teacher, spiritual explorer and mentor, to inspire awakening to the light and greater understanding within us all. This blog is a place of exploration and discovery as we explore opening our hearts and finding harmony and peace in the highs and lows of life 💛

29 comments on “* Spiritual Self Inquiry is From the Neck Down

  1. Ann Koplow's avatar

    It’s registering in the cells of my being, Val. Thank you!

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  2. Jill Weatherholt's avatar

    “The answer to our seeking doesn’t lie in our heads.” That’s a very good thing. 🙂 Thank you, Val! ❤

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  3. roughwighting's avatar

    Ahhh, I love these words and these thoughts. And I thank goodness that I’ve placed meditation into my days, which helps me find those answers “from the neck down.” How wonderful it would be to attend one of your classes. But at least I can visit you here and be inspired.

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  4. Wake38's avatar

    Reblogged this on wake38.

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  5. Jet Eliot's avatar

    Very thought-provoking words, Val. A good reminder of letting loose of the ego and drifting into . 🙂

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  6. Hariod Brawn's avatar

    I’d need a check-up from the neck up not to heed that advice. Wait a minute . . . 😉

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  7. Karen Lang's avatar

    When we feel, we heal. So true Val. 🙂

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  8. insearchofitall's avatar

    Well said. Something to chew on. 🙂

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  9. Dalo Collis's avatar

    More and more I hear of the very vital connections between the body and breath; in China is one of the most important life forces ~ great post Val.

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  10. smilecalm's avatar

    thank you for giving me
    nothing to think about, Val 🙂

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  11. Michele Anderson's avatar

    This is so beautiful, Val, and uplifting. Something I sure needed today. Thank you 🙂

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  12. Tiny's avatar

    Great post, Val, and rings true. The head gets us in trouble when seeking deeper answers 🙂

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  13. Sue Dreamwalker's avatar

    Wonderful Wisdom Val.. Yes it is not nor ever has been in our heads.. I hope more open up their hearts to see inside 🙂 what has always been there waiting for them. ❤

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  14. Bela Johnson's avatar

    The beauty of the garden. Embodied awareness. Love Adyashanti’s teachings. Good stuff. 😉 I used to tell clients to imagine a big heavy gold ball above their heads, then with their breath, breathe it ‘down’ through the body and into the feet. and earth.
    Aloha, Val.

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  15. Samadhical's avatar

    Great quote. I’ve been watching videos by different gurus who say to stop identifying myself with my body or my mind. Which feels so easy to say but how do I DO it? you know. But this quote definitely made a lightbulb go on. So let’s see where that leads 🙂

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    • Val T Boyko's avatar

      Thanks Samantha. It isn’t about believing that we are our thoughts or identifying with our body or a particular role we have in society. The answer is beyond, yet within us all. Tuning inwards and letting go of the external and comparisons is the greatest gift we can give ourselves. xo

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  16. nrhatch's avatar

    Yes! ~> “Once we recognize ourselves as awareness itself, our identity can begin to rest in its essence.”

    As a detached observer, we become aware that nothing is personal.

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