I am grateful to work with clients who want to find their middle ground. A big part of this is becoming aware of what gets in the way and making friends with our emotions. This poem by Chade Meng Tan is taken from his book Search Inside Yourself. It is inspired by Rumi’s The Guest House and the work of Mingyur Rinpoche, as well as the Tale of the Two Wolves.
My monsters come in different shapes and sizes.
Over the years I have learned to deal with them.
I do that by letting go.
First, I let go of my wish to suppress them.
When they arrive, I acknowledge them
I let them be
Next, I let go of my instinct to vilify them.
I seek to understand them.
I see them for who they are.
They are merely creations of my body and mind.
I humor them a little.
I joke with them.
I joke about them.
I let them play.
Then I let go of my desire to feed them.
They may play here all they want.
but they get no food from me.
They are free to stay here hungry if they want.
I continue to let them be.
Then they get really hungry.
And sometimes they leave.
Finally, I let go of my desire to hold on to them.
They are free to leave as they wish.
I let them go.
I am free.
For now.
I do not overcome them.
They do not overcome me.
And we live together
In harmony
Mindful awareness… letting go… accepting emotions for what they are … and finding life in balance.
Aahhh … now that feels better.
Find Your Middle Ground 
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