I came across this earlier post … and boy did it take me back. May we all find grace by connecting to the most vulnerable part of ourselves … our heart.

The Argument
“How dare you!!”
Come into the present moment and notice
the pounding head, the clenched jaw and hands in fists
the thoughts that spark like fiery daggers
“Don’t control me! I don’t want this! I don’t need you!”
Feel the tears and absolute frustration
the vulnerability at being in this place of hurt and loss.
Loss of control. Loss of connection. Loss of understanding.
Become that wee girl too young for words
She knows this place. This sheer frustration. Hurting and not knowing why.
Let this rage turn into one of your biggest breaths ever
Open your mouth and gasp like a fish
take in the air that nourishes and calms
Let it out with a cry from your very soul.
Let the tears roll. Feel their heat running down your cheeks.
Breathe
Feel the energy dropping through you like a stone
allow it to release and pass through the mesh that’s your body
Feel the unburdening and letting go
notice the softening in your body, your thoughts and your being
Say hello to this vulnerable part of you
Feel the relief and the love
You are still here.
And now you are ready to talk about what just happened.
Namaste.
Yup the vulnerability we/I feel…and finding grace…thanks for sharing this Val ~ smiles Hedy
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Smiles and gratitude to you Hedy 💛🙏💛
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Such an important post as we each connect at some points in our lives with our Inner wounded child… Learning to nurture her/him and allowing those sobs as you allow them to come to heal and cleanse, as you hug that little inner child, taking them into your heart.. Loving them and making them feel safe and secure.. Knowing all is now well in your world… ❤
I wonder Val how many of us have said hello to that vulnerable part of ourselves ???
Much love my friend ❤
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Such a good question Sue. Stalwarts and Stoics may not consider this …. but the wisdom from living life fully brings us right to our emotions and the feelings that come from the heart rather than decisions from the head. The greatest gift to humanity may be the lesson on feeling what we are feeling and choosing to let it pass, rather than acting out.
I hope you are well dear friend 💛🙏💛
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Thank you Val.. All is well in the Dreamwalker Household thank you my friend.. Much love your way ❤ As you enjoy your week.. ❤
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Love flowing over to you 💕 thank you so much Sue 🙏
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❤ Hugs back Val
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the power of breathing…
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It is the key 🔑 otherwise we remain locked 🔒. Thank you Jim 💛
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That took me back to a very scary place – and reminded me of all the opportunities that subsequently came for finding grace in vulnerability. Thanks, Val!
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Thank you Vicky. When we face the scary places from our young and innocent last, we can start the healing and the awakening. 💛🙏💛
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It is amazing how that inner dam builds, until some poor soul asks us some simple question and gets drowned as our conditional dam lets go.
We see that this is not acceptable as we get older and wiser and so hang on…and hang on, until we break down.
Anger management (of all the emotions because of its destructive nature, to us and others) should be a part of every school to show us that grace can be a part of our everyday life.
Great post dear lady, your grace is showing beautifully 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
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Thank you Mark for your kind comment and sharing. I agree with you. Teaching children how to get in touch with and mange their emotions is such a powerful life lesson. Alas, it is also one for parents…. and educators. There is such an opportunity here 💛🙏💛
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Just like a storm passing through!
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Yes! That’s it. Thanks Eliza 💝
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NO!
I don’t wanna!
And you can’t make me! 😛
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Exactly!! Thanks Nancy 😄
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My inner child can be so . . . childish! 😉
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Yes – love this!
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Thank you Fiona 💛
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Thank you for this, Val, very timely for me ❤
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This is really good Val. Thank you.
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Thank you Michele. Take car3 of yourself and loved ones 💕
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