time to let go

Fall is the season for letting go. Shedding and releasing things that we no longer need. In doing so, its important to accept that there may be a sense of loss and sadness at this time of year. We are emotional beings after all.

This also makes it a time for self compassion, nurturing and kindness.

Yet letting go is a part of our lives…
It happens every day in our breathing and falling asleep.
It happens when we let go of our children and allow them to be independent adults.
It happens when we end relationships or jobs that no longer serve us.
It happens when we accept that we are not perfect human beings after all.

Life is a journey of letting go, to create space, to restore our balance and to discover what really matters.

Letting go is part of the natural rhythm of life.

Without letting go, we cannot be free.

Namaste

 

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Val Boyko is originally from Scotland and came to the United States over 30 years ago. At "Find Your Middle Ground" Val brings together her experience as a life coach, yoga teacher, spiritual explorer and mentor, to inspire awakening to the light and greater understanding within us all. This blog is a place of exploration and discovery as we explore opening our hearts and finding harmony and peace in the highs and lows of life 💛

54 comments on “Letting Go

  1. storiesandvisionsbyjess's avatar
    thebookofjess7504

    This is a very inspirational post! Thank you for sharing!

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  2. beth's avatar

    I’m working on this )

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  4. Dan Antion's avatar

    Approaching retirement (in a year), I’m loosening my grip on things.

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    • Val T Boyko's avatar

      Don and I are now retired … although I continue to “work” as a yoga teacher and mentor. We both have found our balance. He enjoys updates on the news, sports and other hobbies. Taking care of the dogs and running errands, and thinking about and preparing for dinner. Meantime I go out and get paid for something I love to do.
      Loosen, reflect and find the best mix for you both 💛

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  5. Ann Koplow's avatar

    I still need your blog! ❤

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  6. nrhatch's avatar

    Let go and just be. 😀

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  7. Jet Eliot's avatar

    Every message you share seems to be spot-on for me, Val. Thank you for today’s reminder of letting go, and in such an easy tone that it is clear you know how to let go and have much to share in this process. Warmest thanks.

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  8. marandarussell's avatar
    marandarussell

    My biggest difficulty is in letting go of things I collect. Maybe it is my autism, but I have always been a collector of things, but those hobbies take up so much space!

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  9. rikkisky's avatar

    Just the reminder I needed today

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  10. Jewels's avatar

    Beautifully said, Val. ❤

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  11. IreneDesign2011's avatar

    Great reminder Val ❤
    In the evening, I try to let the day go to be ready for tomorrow. Not always easy, but good exercise.
    You are right, we need to everything go. We are born alone and most often, we will also leave this world alone and we can't bring anything else than our soul.

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  12. pyonchek's avatar

    Often, when I read your words, they hit “Home” with me so directly. As a yoga teacher, I then pass your wise words along to my students – recognizing you as the author. Thank you, Val.

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  13. Eliza Waters's avatar

    Thanks for this wisdom, Val. Autumn transitioning, letting go of summer, is perennially a challenge for me. Even though I know better, I still resist the coming cold. Sigh.

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  14. derrickjknight's avatar

    Beautifully expressed, Val

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  15. yogibanker's avatar

    Nice words Val. Thanks for the reminder about the autumn being the month of letting go. I feel like that in a lot of ways. 🙏

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  16. Val T Boyko's avatar

    Thank you Cherry. May each exhale bring a little more release 💛

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  17. Bela Johnson's avatar

    “To create space.” Exactly. Aloha, Val! ❤

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  18. Life is the best coach's avatar

    How to let go painful memories?

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    • Val T Boyko's avatar

      Letting go of thoughts that no longer serve us isn’t easy. Finding our middle ground and being present with our breath and sensations really helps remind us that the past is past…. and the next moment is always evolving.

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  19. naturerestoresme's avatar

    thanks for the inspiration! and this beautiful fall picture.

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  20. G3's avatar

    Thank you, wonderfully said! I needed this reminder today. I recently drew up a quick water color painting of fall colors and the same line came to my mind.

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  21. Ann Coleman's avatar

    I liked the way you tied the seasons into our personal lives. And it is so true, letting go is just a natural part of life, and sometimes even a good thing.

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  22. Tiny's avatar

    Lots of wisdom here,Val. Letting go is not easy, but as you say, it’s necessary. 💝

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  23. Piyush Choudhary's avatar

    This is absolute words of wisdom. Great great words. I can relate this with my life.
    Also, I have uploaded a new post on “Letting things Go and three ways to do it.” Here’s the link: http://thesoultalks10.com/letting-things-go-three-ways-to-do-it/
    Would be glad to know your views.

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  24. Swati's avatar

    Val you have expressed it so well. Decluttering is what we all are looking for. Loved reading it

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  25. lorriebowden's avatar

    Hi Val! I never really thought about this being the sadness I feel at this time of year…but it makes perfect sense! I think of the trees who let go of their leaves…gray sticks have always made me sad…and yet come spring tiny buds sprout and the cycle of life continues!
    Sending you wishes of love and gratitude on this Thanksgiving day 💜

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