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If we Believe in the Unity of us All

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If we believe in the unity of us all
Then we must let go of judging an other.
Judgment keeps us separate
And grows thorns around our hearts.
As long as we judge, we will suffer.
We are no longer living in connection
With ourselves or others.
Pause and listen to what wants to be known
Let go of spiraling thoughts.
Feel what needs to be felt.
We must touch the love within
And open our hearts to all.
This is the path to contentment.
Namaste
Val T Boyko
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24 responses to “If we Believe in the Unity of us All”

  1. ksbeth Avatar
    ksbeth

    yes, absolutely –

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Thank you Beth 💕

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  2. barbaragoss Avatar
    barbaragoss

    You are so right, but it is so hard to stop judging others and ourselves in our self-talk.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Coming back to our values again and again is a life practice. The self talk comes from the ego and is not the truth …. the truth lies in our heart. 💕

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      1. barbaragoss Avatar
        barbaragoss

        Thanks!

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  3. nrhatch Avatar
    nrhatch

    Good theory . . . but it’s difficult to refrain from judgment “in real life” when Donald’s latest deed, tweet, or boast surfaces.

    I’ll keep trying to remain “detached” and “connected.” 😀

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Me too Nancy❣️ Yet there are always people who are attached to their ego and live a life of personal aggrandizement, power, self promotion and greed. What we can do, is to do our best to ensure that they never have a position of power again. We are not so naive now. Keep spreading compassion and understanding… and supporting those who don’t have a voice. 💕

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  4. Infinite Living Avatar
    Infinite Living

    Beautiful and truly said! Love does answer all.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Thank you PD. Let us all’s keep coming back to that 💕🙏💕

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      1. Infinite Living Avatar
        Infinite Living

        You are very welcome Val.

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  5. Chatter Master Avatar
    Chatter Master

    Thank you Val, for your heart and wisdom.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Keep coming back to your heart and wisdom Colleen. Between you and me, I think that’s what we are here for 😉💕

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      1. Chatter Master Avatar
        Chatter Master

        I think you are right. 🙂

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  6. D. Wallace Peach Avatar
    D. Wallace Peach

    So true and sometimes hard to do in these times. I do feel the judgment and sorrow draining me and have to retreat into a more open and accepting place in order to replenish. Thanks for sharing your wonderful wisdom, Val.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Retreating from the barrage of media in all its forms is what I now do. It’s so important to be sure we nurture our heart and souls, so we can stand for what is right and lift others up.
      If we are united then we must bring balance into the world. 💕

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      1. D. Wallace Peach Avatar
        D. Wallace Peach

        So much of it is repetitive anyway. I’m learning that small doses are sufficient to stay informed. 🙂

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  7. Eliza Waters Avatar
    Eliza Waters

    Wise words, Val. I must trust that whatever is appearing and happening, a higher wisdom and good is unfolding. ❤

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  8. Healing Grief Avatar
    Healing Grief

    That’s the answer for harmony in our world! 💕💚

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Agreed. It all starts with ourselves 💕 thank you Karen

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  9. Tiny Avatar
    Tiny

    Yes, it all starts at home, in ourselves. I find it difficult to be around judgmental people and don’t quite ‘get it’ why they feel that they are in a position to judge others. Great post, Val ❤

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Thank you Helen for being here and being you 💕

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  10. Michele Anderson Avatar
    Michele Anderson

    Sure wish more people thought this way.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Yes – What a difference it would make. Thank you Michele 💕

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  11. sloppy buddhist Avatar
    sloppy buddhist

    Hugs and appreciation for the goodness and beauty you share with us Val 😘💫💘

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