Find Your Middle Ground

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I Can’t Do This!

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Have you ever told yourself “I can’t do this! I want to, but I can’t.
I am too stressed, worried, anxious, afraid, distracted, angry, irritated …. and anyway, there isn’t enough time!”

This  is EXACTLY the time you should consider doing it.

Pay attention to your self talk and don’t believe it.
The answer lies beyond the ego mind’s denial.

If you want it, you can make it happen with all you heart and not your head.

 

Val T Boyko
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22 responses to “I Can’t Do This!”

  1. David Kanigan Avatar
    David Kanigan

    Oh the stories that self-talk tells…most of them not healthy.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Some stories take us down never ending paths of fear and regrets. Thanks Dave 💛

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  2. nrhatch Avatar
    nrhatch

    Sometimes we COULD do it . . . we just don’t WANNA do it. 😀

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Sometimes very true Nancy 💛Seeing through ego thoughts make all the difference.

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  3. Deana Morris Avatar
    Deana Morris

    Fear is there to be walked through. It’s just a feeling. But it’s also the opposite of love, so that’s why we walk through it. We don’t embrace it. We embrace love.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      I love how you express this Deana. Thank you 💕

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  4. Ann Koplow Avatar
    Ann Koplow

    I’m grateful for this post with all my heart, Val.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Thank you Ann from my heart to yours 💕

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  5. The Coastal Crone Avatar
    The Coastal Crone

    Thanks for the words of encouragement! I CAN get back to posting! Glad I found your post today.

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Write from your heart…. and other hearts will always tune in 💛
      Thanks Jo.

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  6. Healing Grief Avatar
    Healing Grief

    So true! 🙂

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Thanks Karen! Its a timely reminder for many of us 💛

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  7. Eliza Waters Avatar
    Eliza Waters

    It’s just the voice in your head, pay it no mind! 😉
    How was Kripalu? Great time of year to visit!

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Thanks Eliza 💛That voice also gets pretty boring after all these years!
      Kripalu was wonderful. What a great week weather wise. The course was fun, and I bumped into many old friends. Just what I needed before jumping into yard!!

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  8. Kate Avatar
    Kate

    “The answer lies beyond the ego mind’s denial” I love that! 💕

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Thank you Kate. 💕

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  9. Atifa. Avatar
    Atifa.

    you have no idea how much i needed this right now. i can’t thank you enough.

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  10. Sue Dreamwalker Avatar
    Sue Dreamwalker

    Great advice, we often are very good at self talking our way of of DOing! 🙂 instead of getting GOing.. 🙂

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Indeed we do! Thanks Sue. Have a great weekend 💕

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      1. Sue Dreamwalker Avatar
        Sue Dreamwalker

        ❤ you too

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  11. lorriebowden Avatar
    lorriebowden

    Ah! Just yesterday, Val! An impromptu first attempt at paddle board…safest place was closed. Next place in the middle of a dangerous inlet…the lady says, “The currents are bad, and today is fish without a license day so lots of boats who don’t know what they are doing…and yes…we need your full birth date because if a shark bites you we’ll be better able to identify an arm.” WHUUUUUUUT?????
    So I thought, “I can’t do this!” But I was wrong! I CAN…I DID…AND I LOVE IT!!!😉
    Hope you are we’ll, Val 💜

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    1. Val Boyko Avatar
      Val Boyko

      Laughing … you are a lot braver than me Lorrie 💛 so glad it was a fun and empowering experience❣️

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