keep score

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Results may vary

Yet keeping score closes hearts

Find your Middle Ground.

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When we engage the analytical mind, we start to close down our ability to empathize.

Aways reminder what is at stake behind the counting, and keep our hearts open.

 

To find out more about finding your middle ground, please click here.

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Val Boyko is originally from Scotland and came to the United States over 30 years ago. At "Find Your Middle Ground" Val brings together her experience as a life coach, yoga teacher, spiritual explorer and mentor, to inspire awakening to the light and greater understanding within us all. This blog is a place of exploration and discovery as we explore opening our hearts and finding harmony and peace in the highs and lows of life 💛

35 comments on “Haiku – keeping score

  1. Sue Dreamwalker's avatar

    May we all remember to keep our hearts open. For its our Hearts are our gateway to a New Earth.. ❤ xxx Love and Peace to you Val.. xxx

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  2. smilecalm's avatar

    thank you, Val
    for helping me
    lose track 🙂

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  3. Chatter Master's avatar

    Finding out I don’t have to keep score has given me one less chore to worry and stress over. 😉

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  4. Jill Weatherholt's avatar

    No one wins when you’re keeping score. ❤

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  5. jeffw5382's avatar

    I have been on the losing end of that tally. I can choose to respond with love and kindness and allow them to carry on until they’re ready to find their own middle ground

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  6. Ann Koplow's avatar

    She blogs, she shots, she scores!
    Thanks Val.

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  7. Tiny's avatar

    This is so important to remember, Val. Thank you 🙏

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  8. Eliza Waters's avatar

    True, true.
    As a winter activity at our library, I hosted a Scrabble group for all ages. It was for socializing and wordplay, but with no scoring. Every single adult that showed up was keenly disappointed that we weren’t scoring and had trouble just letting go and have fun. Not a one returned in subsequent weeks. The kids, however, loved it. It was rather eye-opening!

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  9. Ann Coleman's avatar

    So true! It is impossible to be competitive and empathetic at the same time.

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  10. Infinite Living's avatar

    Yet keeping score closes hearts – so true and so well said.

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  11. Karen Lang's avatar

    While keeping score, I miss receiving exactly what I need! Wonderful reminder Val 💚💚💕

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    • Val T Boyko's avatar

      In relationships this is so true Karen 💕 I was also thinking of how politicians try to get the votes, and forget the true meaning of what they are voting for and the impact on people.

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  12. Live & Learn's avatar

    No score today. Everyone wins.

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  13. D. Wallace Peach's avatar

    So true, Val. Much better to play at life for a win-win.

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  14. Susan Scott's avatar

    too much wasted effort keeping score! Thank you, lovely.

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  15. ladyfi's avatar

    Agreed! There are humans and life behind those statistics.

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