What’s the Difference Between Strength and Courage?

Courage comes from the French word “coeur” meaning heart. Being courageous means facing our fears and coming from our heart rather than our head. Its a place where we face our vulnerabilities and overcome them through compassion and love. As a child in Scotland I was told I had to be strong.

Scottish-LuckenboothThis isn’t just a family legacy, but a whole cultural one! We Scots are independent and strong. But we also have big hearts, often hidden behind the strong exterior. The Scottish Luckenbooth symbolizes our heart and our national pride…. But I’m getting sidetracked here!

Here is an inspirational poem about the difference between Strength and Courage to help you choose for yourself. If anyone knows the author, please let me know. Val x

The Difference Between Strength and Courage 

It takes strength to be firm,
It takes courage to be gentle.

It takes strength to stand guard,
It takes courage to let down your guard.

It takes strength to conquer,
It takes courage to surrender.

It takes strength to be certain,
It takes courage to have doubt

It takes strength to fit in,
It takes courage to stand out.

It takes strength to feel a friend’s pain,
It takes courage to feel your own pain.

It takes strength to hide your own pains,
It takes courage to show them.

It takes strength to endure abuse,
It takes courage to stop it.

It takes strength to stand alone,
It takes courage to lean on another

It takes strength to love,
It takes courage to be loved.

It takes strength to survive,
It takes courage to live.

~ David L. Griffith

Whenever you feel you have neither, may the heart of the universe hug you today with its warmth, and love.

And may the wind carry a voice that tells you there is a friend sitting in another corner of the world wishing you well!


118 responses to “What’s the Difference Between Strength and Courage?”

  1. Beautiful post, thanks for sharing. Love Jenna

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    1. Thank you Jenna 🙂

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  2. I like the concept of the Universal Hug. Hugs for all!

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    1. Thank you Sara! Mega hugs right back at you.

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  3. […] too long ago I shared a poem from an unknown author about the difference between strength and courage. It is very inspiring. Many of us think of strength and courage as being similar, but in my […]

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  4. May the wind whisper the same to you, my friend.
    Russ

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    1. Russ, you touched my heart. Thank you my friend. Val x

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  6. To me strength means getting through things and courage means actions.

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    1. Persevering and taking action are powerful together. Thank you for sharing your thought here. Val x

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  7. What a lovely post. Unfortunately I can’t help you with the author.
    Thank you for following my blog and leading me to your beautiful blog. ❤

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    1. Lovely to see you here Carol. Thanks so much for the follow and taking the time to comment today. I look forward to connecting more.
      🙂 Val x

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  8. An excellent post Val. thanks for stopping by

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    1. Thank you Eddie! Glad it resonated with you 🙂

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  9. Beautiful poem Val, thanks for sharing. So often we honour and reward the strength in others and perhaps lose sight how brave we need to be to have the courage to face our greatest fears and vulnerabilities in life.

    Karen

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  10. Beautiful post Val. Thanks for liking my post about Mondays and for following me too:)

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    1. Let us play and pay it forward together!
      🙂

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  11. DarcSunshine Avatar

    My husband and I are both of Scottish heritage so I really enjoyed this post for that and many other reasons as well. I am so glad that I found your blog! It is beautiful and inspiring. If people take the time to truly read your poems they can also learn from them.

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    1. Thank you so much for stopping by! I’m glad it reonated with you.
      Val x

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  12. I have about a pint of scotch heritage along with other European roots. The culture resonates with me, even the wailing dissonance of bagpipes! I’m glad to be connected with you through our blogs and a thread of common heredity!

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    1. Me too Sherry! I look forward to sharing our journeys together. Thank for taking time to comment and the follow 🙂
      Val x

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  13. I love that poem!!!!! 🙂

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  14. […] Found this here: https://findyourmiddleground.com/2013/11/17/whats-the-difference-between-strength-and-courage/#commen… […]

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  15. Hi Val, is it ok to post like this? Sorry, I’m fast! 😎 I assume it’s good, but let me know if not and I’ll take down. I included a link back here. 🙂

    http://verakasi.wordpress.com/2014/08/12/the-difference-between-strength-and-courage/

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    1. Vera, so happy to share the goodness! Thank you for the re-blog and stopping by. I do appreciate it.
      Val x

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  16. Very thoughtful and beautiful , too !

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  17. So true in their meanings…and beautifully put together 🙂

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    1. Thank you Mark. Your kind words are much appreciated 🙂
      Val x

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  18. Val, I thought I had to explore your previous posts… what a good idea: I’ve found this poem: it is so profound, “The Difference Between Strength and Courage”…
    “It takes strength to survive,
    It takes courage to live.”…
    It takes courage… to have courage.
    Thanks for sharing such beautiful words! xxo

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    1. Thank you so much Frederic for taking the time to explore more here! I really appreciate it.<3
      Im so glad you enjoyed this poem and its message. It is one of my favorites.
      Val x

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      1. Oh, I understand you, it is really a beautul and meaningful poem! ♥

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  19. This is such a great posting I have emailed it to my Scottish Sister-In-Law.

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    1. Thanks so much! I hope she voted today. Its a big day in Scotland 🙂

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  20. Reblogged this on Retirement Lifestyle Blog and commented:
    Strength & Courage and learning its true meaning.

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  21. Thank you for this wonderful poem. I wish I could pass it on to Millie and Pearl – we’re having a lot of thunder at the moment and they’re not coping well!

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    1. Thank you so much for exploring here Annabelle! This is one of my favorites too 🙂 Thunder can be so hard for our pups. All we can do is reassure and be there for them hoping it is enough. ❤

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  22. I want me some of that courage! Love your words and thoughts, Val!

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    1. Thanks Julie! Its a helpful reminder for me too at times 😉

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    1. Thank you so much for the re-blog. 🙂

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  23. I enjoyed your poem and reflections on the word courage. I have written about strength myself through the perspective of guidance given in tarot and always enjoy diving deeper into the topic through others explorations. All good things to you!! Lisa

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    1. Thank you for your kind words Lisa and for stopping by! I look forward to exploring the deep with you 🙂
      Val x

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  24. Very wise words!! Indeed!! Thank you for following my blog. Best, Ellen

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    1. Thank you Ellen for your kind words! … and for visiting 🙂

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  25. My pleasure– I am following you now, too.

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    1. Thanks Ellen! I look forward to connecting more 🙂

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  26. What a heartfelt sentiment and just what I needed to hear today, so Thanks Val! I shall pick myself up once more and move forward today, even though it is -1 degrees outside!………………..~ Mick E. ~

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    1. Thank you Mick for stopping by. So glad it resonated with you today 🙂

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  27. Val this is a wonderful Poem.. These two lines say it all..

    “It takes strength to survive,
    It takes courage to live.”

    Thank you Val, for sharing many of your posts and your light and uplifting words.. You have given I am sure many the courage to voice their own thoughts and the strength to help them see they are never alone.. When you find your ‘Middle Ground’ and stand tall within your space.. 🙂

    Love and Blessings
    Sue

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  28. Beautiful Val. And I sit in this corner, wishing you well too! ❤
    Diana xo

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  29. Good stuff, Val! Hope you’re having a wonderful time at your yoga training. x

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  30. A beautiful post. In the face of danger strength alone may not be enough courage too will be needed. Thanks.

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  31. This is the most beautiful post and poem, Val! Thank you. I hope you’ve had a wonderful week.

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  32. This was beautiful, thanks Val!

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  33. What a thoughtful post – I’ve never really thought about it before, but I do love your description of the differences!

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    1. Thank you Fiona 🙂

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  34. What a wonderful post Val and such a nice thing to say ‘Whenever you feel you have neither, may the heart of the universe hug you today with its warmth, and love.
    And may the wind carry a voice that tells you there is a friend sitting in another corner of the world wishing you well!’.

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    1. There is always love around. Sometimes we forget because we are caught up in our own woes and worries. Sending you a ((hug)) xo

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      1. Thanks. Love and hugs.

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  35. I enjoyed reading the poem. It makes a whole lot of sense. As someone has said, courage isn’t the absence of fear …

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    1. Thank you Timi for sharing here 💛

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  36. When people told me that I had a lot of courage, I told them they were wrong.
    because I am afraid of many things..
    That was when I was told that courage is actually what it takes to move through the fear to get to the other side.. Wouldn’t need courage if there wasn’t a measure of fear and uncertainty.
    If that is true, then yes–I am courageous (and I didn’t even know it). :).

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    1. I like that Mary! You are indeed courageous to be with your fear 😌

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    1. Thank you Dan. Glad it resonates with you 💛

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  37. In the Stillness of Willow Hill Avatar
    In the Stillness of Willow Hill

    What a wonderful poem. The inner journey is not without fear, but these dear words have helped us remember that courage is oh so beautiful. As for myself…I used to operate primarily from strength (I have a bit of the Scot in me too), but years and tears have helped me to be more open and soft with myself and others.

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  38. Love this post and am reblogging it. And thanks for following my blog.

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    1. Thank you so much Margo for your kind words and the reblog! 💛

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  39. Reblogged this on that little voice and commented:
    What a thoughtful post from findyourmiddleground.com. Always a treat to read this blog, and recommend you give it a read.

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  40. Wow, that is amazing. Love it!

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    1. So glad you felt connected to this. Keep listening to your heart 💛

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  42. This is a great post. Thank you for sharing. I saw your post on Momma’s weekly list 🙂

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    1. Thanks EH for stopping by! Glad you enjoyed it. 💛

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  43. Vsl, yhis was a great find in these beautiful and touching words. I am 1/4 Scottish, leading back to King Bruce. My Dad’s side. . . 🙂

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    1. Thank you cousin Robin!

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  44. Beautiful poem! I also love the Scottish Luckenbooth, which I’ve never seen before. I am 1/4+ Scottish and have had the privilege of visiting the exact place where my 3-greats grandmother grew up. I appreciate all things Scottish!

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    1. Thank you cousin! Glad you enjoyed it. 💛

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  45. ‘Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.’
    -Lao Tzu

    This spurred me into seeking something, and then i found you.
    Wow.

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    1. Thank you for you kind words Roger. May life bring more synchronicity your way 💛

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  46. Hi Val, thanks for the like on a comment I made for Sue Dreamwalker, Good to meet you. We love Scotland, love this poem. Love, David

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    1. Thank you so much David for visiting. Have a good weekend!

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    Reblogged this on Grevillea Corner and commented:
    this is beautiful….

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    1. Thank you for your kind words and the re-blog Stephanie 💛

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      1. grevilleacorner Avatar
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        you are welcome…your post helped me a lot today and will always be remembered xx

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  48. Val!
    The description you are giving is extraordinary and gives strength and courage too.
    The last two lines I loved to read about having not both of them,
    Shiva

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    1. Thank you Shiva! May it inspire you today and every day.

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  49. I really liked this. Thank you.

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    1. Glad it resonated with you today 💛

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  50. Hi Val,
    Love this poem … says it all! And thanks for the follow on Hanukah and the Angel. Love, David

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    1. Thank you for your kind words David! May our connections continue 💛

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  51. Beautiful post and poem Val. Hugs back to you and into the universe.

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  52. Beautiful and helpful guidance! Thank you!

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    1. Thank you Ellen. So glad it resonated with you. Let us all always come from the heart 💛

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  53. Thanks, what a lovely poem!

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    1. Thank you Anarette 💛

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  54. I really Love this poem…very inspirational!

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    1. Thank you Kelly! I was inspired by it as well 💛

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  55. […] the day I have started blogging because it’s so uplifting and thoughtful. One poem is on the difference between strength and courage and the other one about shifting from one to the […]

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  56. All the comments covered my words. Nothing to say more Val.

    Following 🙂

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  57. Thank you for sharing the poem about strength and courage . It was truly beautiful and touching. Much appreciated! 🙂 😉

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    1. I’m so glad it resonated with you Sam 💛

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  58. It comes from David L Griffith (writer and poet) and was quite easy to find with a Google search, Val.
    http://www.spotlightdavid.com/SpotlightHome.html

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    1. Thanks Vicki! I’ve updated it.

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  59. ,a good reminder – thanks

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    1. Glad you appreciated this 💛

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  60. And may the wind carry a voice that tells you there is a friend sitting in another corner of the world wishing you well! I love this Val and your blog…always wonderful and uplifting…and thought provoking ☺️🤓 smiles hedy

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    1. Than’ you so much Hedy. I love your presence here and out there 🙏

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  61. […] (Reblogged from https://findyourmiddleground.com/2015/05/07/whats-the-difference-between-strength-and-courage/?c=121… […]

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  62. […] Breaking free of the mind, and opening the heart, is a vulnerable path that requires courage. Courage, after all, comes from the heart, the origin of the word is from the French word for heart – “coeur”. (You can read more here.) […]

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My name is Val Boyko, a dual citizen living near Philadelphia, originally from Scotland.

This blog came to life one morning in 2013.  I woke up with these words in my mind:  “Life is a series of highs and lows. Be grateful for the highs. Be graceful in the lows. And find contentment in your Middle Ground.”

Find Your Middle Ground blog started to explore, reflect, ask deep questions, share insights about awakening, and connect with wonderful people like yourself. Thank you for being here and being such an inspiration.