When we are on a spiritual path, the idea of ego becomes something to overcome and get past. It feels contrary to how we want to be in the world.
Its the part of ourselves that we would rather hide or deny rather than show. So we battle with it or suppress it…. or disguise it.
Here are some examples from my own experience:
~ We see ourselves as knowledgeable and evolved…. so we don’t want to be seen as not knowing or caught up in our self image.
~ We see ourselves as spiritual beings who give a lot to others…. so we don’t want to appear selfish and put ourselves first.
~ We see ourselves as good people in a world of danger and mistrust… because the world is a place where things are out of our control and other people might take advantage of us.
Does this sound familiar to you? Can you see the ego at play here – in our thoughts about how we don’t want to be. That’s our ego in disguise.
We are creating a “better” ego to overcome the inferior one from the past.
The irony is that in order for us to evolve past our ego we need to get intimate with it and acknowledge it. If we want to truly evolve into a new level of consciousness then this is the place that must be embraced.
When we look at the aspects of our ego, or our shadow side and we feel resistance and discomfort … its a good thing. Of course, this very human part of us doesn’t want to be looked at. Yet, when we accept is as a part of our experience, we begin to see it more clearly. We feel it’s impact and see the power it has had over us for most of our lives … even now.
Being awake and conscious and witnessing how our ego comes and goes is something that the most enlightened people are able to do. It brings a smile and possibly a shrug. There is curiosity, compassion and detachment.
We cannot deny it just as the left needs the right, one side of a coin has to have the other, and a one side of paper cannot be separated from the other.
When we accept it and see through it, it loses its power. We must embrace it in order for it to be no longer important as a driver in our lives.
If we continue to beat it up it will find ways to become more powerful in our thinking and stories about ourselves.
So be kind to it, so you can let it go and transcend into the light.
And yes … you can have fun with it along the way 😉
Find Your Middle Ground 
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